And you knew well ahead of time it would be.
The harbinger of an unhappy marriage may be your gut.
A new study by psychologists found that newlyweds had underlying positive or negative gut feelings about their spouses that many were unaware of and that predicted marital satisfaction years later. ...WaPo
It depends on whether you (are willing to?) recognize the signs.
The experiment used a photo of the newlywed spouse and a series of positive and negative words to elicit a so-called automatic attitude.
“Either people are completely unaware of this automatic attitude, or they’re completely aware and just not willing to talk about it,” said psychologist and study author James McNulty of Florida State University. The study was published online Thursday in the journal Science.
Automatic attitudes are unfiltered, knee-jerk reactions that can sometimes oppose the conscious thoughts. ...WaPo
In the end, it's about tolerance, attitude... So what else is new?