One of the more soft-headed beliefs out there (¡ay, mamacita!) is that women are inherently more moral than men. Yup. Kinder, more giving, considerably more decent than the other gender. If you believe that, well, Hillary Clinton has ruined the rest of your life. If you never believed it, you just nod your head quietly as Clinton lies and plays dirty and you say something like, "Yeah, just like my first wife!"
Of course, this belief set belongs for the most part to knuckle-draggers of both sexes who remain aggravated by the differences but blind to similarities in general. The rest of us were educated by Lucy and Charlie Brown. We knew the score all along.
For Barbara Ehrenreich, the wake-up calls were Abu Ghraib and Hillary Clinton's campaign.
In Friday's New York Times, Susan Faludi rejoiced over Hillary Clinton's destruction of the myth of female prissiness
and innate moral superiority, hailing Clinton's "no-holds-barred
pugnacity" and her media reputation as "nasty" and "ruthless." Future
female presidential candidates will owe a lot to the race of 2008,
Faludi wrote, "when Hillary Clinton broke through the glass floor and
got down with the boys."
I share Faludi's glee--up to a point. Surely no one will ever dare argue
that women lack the temperament for political combat. But by running a
racially tinged campaign, lying about her foreign policy experience and
repeatedly seeming to favor McCain over her Democratic opponent, Clinton
didn't just break through the "glass floor," she set a new low for
floors in general, and would, if she could have gotten within arm's
reach, have rubbed the broken glass into Obama's face.
Apparently Francis Fukuyama still thinks wimmins are not suited to the presidency, being less willing to rush into war. But he's wrong. Hillary is fully prepared.
Far from being the stereotypical
feminist-pacifist of your imagination, the woman to get closest to the
Oval Office has promised to "obliterate" the toddlers of Tehran--along,
of course, with the bomb-builders and Hezbollah supporters. Earlier on,
Clinton foreswore even talking to presumptive bad guys, although women
are supposed to be the talk addicts of the species. Watch out--was her
distinctly unladylike message to Hugo Chávez, Kim Jong-Il and the rest
of them--or I'll rip you a new one.
Oo0-ee! That's so exciting. Doesn't that turn you on? Ehrenreich rightly points out that women have never been given credit for aggression. It always gets written off as less potent "bitchiness."
...Men get angry; women suffer from bouts of inexplicable,
hormonally-driven, hostility. So give Clinton credit for defying the
belittling stereotype: she's been visibly angry for months, if not
decades, and it can't all have been PMS.
If you've been clinging to the notion of women's moral superiority, you managed to close your eyes -- as Ehrenreich points out -- to Lynndie England, Condi Rice and other recent perps. Abu Ghraib was what ended the myth of women's moral superiority for Barbara Ehrenreich. Others among us have lived with the hard truth for years: we learned early on that you can't make sweeping, silly generalizations about any group -- ethnic, religious, national, gender, class. We shouldn't even have to say that.
Hillary Clinton smashed the myth of innate female moral superiority in
the worst possible way--by demonstrating female moral inferiority. We
didn't really need her racial innuendos and free-floating bellicosity to
establish that women aren't wimps. As a generation of young feminists
realizes, the values once thought to be uniquely and genetically
female--such as compassion and an aversion to violence--can be found in
either sex, and sometimes it's a man who best upholds them.